GEDALE FENSTER on Instagram: "Every mess in your life is really a message. The minute something triggers you, pause and ask: “What is this here to heal?” Nothing can trigger you unless it already exists inside of you. A rejection… Not getting invited… A setback… It’s never about the event — it’s about the old wound it awakens. Hashem sends situations to repair low self-esteem, fear, and old patterns. The invitation is not to the wedding — it’s an invitation to heal the version of you that got hu